Why the Son Became Man

Hebrews 2:14-18

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Introduction

There are certain questions that don’t go away even after we become Christians. Questions that still rise up in our hearts. Not because we don’t believe, but because we’re still living in a world that’s marked by sin, weakness, suffering. You feel them at a funeral. Even for someone who knows the hope of the resurrection, death still feels very unnatural, like an enemy that shouldn’t be there. You feel them late at night when everything gets quiet and your mind keeps racing. Thinking about your life, your struggles, your fears, you feel them when your conscience presses in. It’s not in condemnation, but in conviction. When you’re reminded that even as a believer, you still wrestle with sin. You wish it was gone. And you feel them in your suffering. When life feels overwhelming and you realize that you’re not as strong as you thought you were. And in those moments, the questions come. Not as a stranger to Christ, but as someone who belongs to Him. What do I feel? What do I do when I feel the weight of death? What do I do with the sin that I still struggle with? How do I endure what God has placed in front of me?

And here’s what’s important to see. The Bible doesn’t answer those questions by sending us back to ourselves. He doesn’t say, try harder, do better. Man, figure it out, would you already? It does what the Bible always does. Directing us back to a person. The eternal Son of God.

And that raises a deeper question for us as believers. Why did He have to come like this? Why did the Son of God not just remain distant, but take on flesh? Step into our weakness. Enter into our suffering. It’s not a small question. It’s the heart of your assurance, because if you miss this, you won’t just misunderstand the gospel. You’ll struggle to rest in what Christ has already done for you. And that’s exactly where Hebrews takes us, not just to inform our minds, but to steady our hearts. Because in Hebrews 2, 14 to 18, we’re not just told why He came. We’re shown what He has done for us right now as believers.

So, as we walk through this passage, here’s what we’re going to see. The eternal Son of God became like us. So that He could save us. Represent us. Help us. The author shows us that in three ways. We’re going to see Jesus deal with your greatest problem. Death. And then we’re going to see how Jesus deals with your deepest issue. Sin before a holy God. And last, we’re going to see Jesus meets with you right in your present reality. Suffering, weakness, despair.

Jesus Deals with Your Greatest Problem: Death

Hebrews 2:14–16

Remember the first question that we asked? What do I do about the weight of death? That’s exactly where the text begins. It’s verses 14 to 16. Let’s read it again.

Since therefore the children share in flesh and blood, he himself likewise partook of the same things, that through death, listen, he might destroy the one who has the power of death. That is the devil. and deliver all those who through fear of death were subject to lifelong slavery. For surely it is not angels that he helps, but he helps the offspring of Abraham.

The children, you see it? That’s you. That’s me. That’s the very ones that the father gave to the son. Amen. Don’t miss that. Don’t miss that important reality of your adoption. We talked about it last time. As children, what do we do? We cry out, Abba, Father. He loves us. He gave us His Son. And it’s out of that adoption that we stand complete confidence in our risen Savior.

But the author, he does another important thing here. He reminds us of our humanity. That’s right, each of us came into this world as weak and sinful and fragile and subject to death. And we ask the question, why must we die? As believers, we know the answer. Because sin has come into the world and plagued us all. The Scripture is clear. Paul told the church in Rome, the wages of sin are death. Death is not something that just happens. It is earned. And if you ask people, what’s your biggest fear? They might say, well, standing up there, talking, pastor, actually, public speaking. It’s why some would rather be in the casket than deliver the eulogy. But deeper than that, deeper than the public speaking fear is the fear of death. Why? Why? Because people don’t know what happens when this life ends. It’s like when someone gets bad news from a doctor. At first, they try not to think about it. They stay busy. They distract themselves. But every once in a while, usually late at night, it comes back, what is going to happen to me? But as Christians, we no longer fear death. The Apostle Paul reminds us to the church in Corinth, death no longer has a sting. It’s been swallowed up in the victory of the cross.

Now, here’s what’s incredible right here. Listen, our Savior, He didn’t just stay distant from this, our humanity. He stepped into it. He took on flesh and blood. And the text says that he had to. Why? So that through death, he would destroy death. And who stands behind the power of death? You see it. It’s the devil. It’s the accuser. It’s the deceiver who uses sin and death to keep people in fear. What does he do? He tempts. He accuses. He whispers lies. Man, you’re still in your sin. You’re not forgiven. You can’t be a child of God. You’re not going to really make it to the end. Ever hear those? They all come from the same place. But hear this. It was through death… that Jesus destroyed death. Wait a minute, pastor. I’m not following with you. People are still dying. But look closely at that word death. It doesn’t mean that Satan is gone. It means that he has been rendered powerless. For the Christian, death is not the end of the story. Spurgeon said it well. Death is a messenger from our Father in heaven calling us home to Him. Death no longer has dominion over you. Just like sin, if you’re in Christ, no longer reigns over you.

But pastor, I still sin. I still fear death. Well, that’s true. Sin is still present and death will happen, but it’s no longer ruling. Listen, if sin were ruling you, you wouldn’t be fighting it. You’d lay it down. You’d say, just do whatever. You wouldn’t be putting it to death. But you are. Every day you wake up and you go to war against your own self. And here’s why you can have confidence because of what Christ has done. You see, Jesus has planted something in you that death cannot touch. See, it’s an undying life. It’s a seed that’s going to grow and become fully bloomed in eternity in his presence forever.

Look at verse 15. Jesus came. To deliver all those who through fear of death were subject to lifelong slavery. That’s heavy language. Slavery? That’s not an occasional struggle or a passing fear. That’s a condition. It’s a way of living. The Bible says that apart from Christ, people don’t just fear death. They are ruled by that fear. And it’s like chains that you can’t see, but you definitely fear. Always trying to be safe. And even when things are going well, there’s this quiet anxiety underneath it all. Is this it? What happens when it’s all over? Am I ready for it? Thomas Hobbes said, called death a great leap into the dark. That is the weight of not knowing. Listen, you can distract yourself from it. You can push it down, but apart from Christ, death cannot truly be faced without horror and fear. That’s exactly what Hebrews is describing here. Through fear of death, we’re subject to lifelong slavery.

Now look at verse 16. If Jesus wanted to save the angels, he would have become like an angel. Listen, but that was not his concern. There are the angels who have fallen. They are destined for destruction. And then there’s the elect angels who are safe and secure. Remember, the Son of God took on flesh in order to truly represent us. No angel has the power to bear the punishment of God’s wrath. Only the eternal Son who took on humanity was able to accomplish this task. That phrase, He helps the offspring of Abraham. I want to make two things clear. Who He helps and why this matters.

Imagine a house full of children, but only some belong to the family. Now when trouble comes, the father doesn’t say, oh, let me just help whoever’s nearby. No, he moves on toward his own. It’s not because he doesn’t care about all the other children in the room, but because these are his children. You see, they bear his name. They belong to him. That’s what this verse is saying. Jesus didn’t come to help angels. He came to help a people, the offspring of Abraham, those who belong to him by faith. He didn’t come to make salvation just a possibility for everyone. Yet he came to actually help and save his people. Now you may be wondering, who are the offspring of Abraham? Well, the Bible is clear. Not those who are just physically descended from Abraham, but those who share in his faith, those who trust in Christ’s promises, those who belong to Christ. This means the question is not, was I born into the right family? But this, do I belong to Christ? And if you belong to Christ, this help is for you.

So Jesus didn’t come, he didn’t come to just help in some general way. No, he came for a people, the offspring of Abraham. And that means that that help is not just general, it’s specific.

Jesus Deals with Your Deepest Issue: Sin Before a Holy God

Hebrews 2:17

So how does he actually help them? Well, verse 17 tells us, let’s read it together.

Therefore, he had to be made like his brothers in every respect, so that he might become a merciful and faithful high priest in the service of God to make propitiation for the sins of the people.

Look at that phrase. He had to. It was necessary. It was necessary. To do what? To be like His brothers. If you’re in Christ, you are His brothers. You’ve inherited all that is His. He stands amidst His brothers in the great congregation. He stands among you every day. Why did Jesus have to become like us? Well, first, in order to save us, But now we’re seeing that second reason starting to take shape. Now you might ask yourself, I’m not so sure why Jesus had to become merciful and faithful. Wasn’t he already merciful and faithful? Again, stay with me here. The author is not talking about what is in his divine nature alone. It’s talking about what He became for us. He became merciful in His experience and faithful in His role.

Listen, Jesus has walked everything you have walked in this life. But to an even greater extent. Do you want to serve a God who stands outside of your experience? Distant, not understanding. Or do you want one who’s actually walked your experience? See, this is what is truly incredible about our Savior. He lived our lives in every respect. There’s no qualifier. It’s not most ways. It’s every ways. It’s the difference between someone who reads about suffering and someone who has actually walked through it. You know, both of them may care, but only one of them truly knows what it’s like from the inside. Listen, he took on a real body, a real mind. Real emotions. He experienced hunger, weakness, sorrow, temptation, and suffering. He knows what it is to live in a world like this. Why did he have to become like us and never respect us? Because you can’t represent someone you are not truly like.

Think about it this way. Someone speaking on behalf of the family. If they’ve never been part of the family, never shared their life, never carried their burdens, their words don’t carry much weight, do they? But when someone from the inside of the family speaks, Someone who knows. Someone who has lived it. It’s different. The point is that you cannot represent someone you are not truly like. A faithful high priest is one who does exactly what God requires. No compromise. No failure. No shortcuts. And that’s exactly what Jesus did. Jesus was faithful in His obedience. He’s faithful in His sacrifice. You’ve heard of this? Active obedience. Passive obedience. Active obeyed the law in every way. Passively suffered and died on the cross. Obedient to death. He obeyed the Father perfectly. See, where we fail, He obeyed. Where we fall short, He was faithful.

We consider a high priest who was not faithful. You can check out Eli. 1 Samuel 1-3. He was the high priest of Israel. He knew the Lord. He served in the tabernacle. He held the sacred office. But he was not faithful. Why? Because he refused to deal with sin. Especially his own household. His sons, Hophni and Phinehas, were priests too. But they were openly corrupt. They abused the sacrifices. They took what belonged to God. And they lived in blatant sin. And here’s the thing. Eli knew it. He even confronted them lightly. But he didn’t stop them. He failed to act. Eli was a priest who knew what was right, but did not do what was required. And because of that, God judged him.

But Jesus is nothing like Eli. Where Eli failed, Jesus was faithful. He didn’t ignore sin. He dealt with it faithfully, fully. He didn’t shrink back, but obeyed all the way to the bloody cross. And that’s significant. Why? Because Jesus offered Himself as a perfect sacrifice to take away sin for all who believe. He was faithful even to death. Even death on a cross. Jesus is a faithful high priest who has never failed and will never fail you.

How did Jesus deal with our sin fully? That’s what verse 17 tells us. To make propitiation for the sins of the people. Propitiation? What is that? Write this down. Simply put, Jesus satisfied the wrath of God against sin. Jesus satisfied the wrath of God against sin. Remember this. God is holy. Sin is not small. And Jesus didn’t avoid the payment. He didn’t flee from the debts of sin. No, He made those payments in full and said, finished. Now in Christ, you’re no longer counted as guilty.

So when we talk about God’s wrath, we’re talking about God’s holy and right response to sin. Because God is good, perfectly just, He must oppose evil. And because God is just, He cannot ignore sin. Listen, His wrath is not Him losing control of His anger. It’s Him perfectly upholding what is right. And that’s what makes the Gospel so powerful. The wrath that was rightly directed to us was poured out fully upon His Son. There is no wrath for you. Because it has all been taken by Him.

So don’t miss that. Don’t miss what this means for you. Jesus didn’t come just to understand your situation. No, He came to stand in your place. As your merciful and faithful high priest, He dealt fully with your greatest need before a holy God. Your sin has been answered for. God’s wrath has been satisfied. Justice has been upheld. There’s nothing left for you to pay. Which means when you come to Christ, you don’t come hoping God will just overlook your sin. You come knowing it has been dealt with fully. You don’t come uncertain. You come with confidence. Because your standing before God does not rest on what you have done, but on what Christ has done for you.

And who are those people? The children. The brothers. It’s you and me since we’re in Christ. And because He has done that for you before God, He now meets with you in everything you face.

Jesus Meets with You in Your Present Reality: Suffering, Weakness, Despair

Hebrews 2:18

Look at that in verse 18.

For because He Himself has suffered when tempted… He is able to help those who are being tempted.

Jesus meets with you in your present reality, suffering and weakness. Understand this. God the Son took upon Himself a real human nature. This is an essential doctrine of Christianity. Jesus is truly God and truly man. There’s this old error called doceticism. It’s so hard to spell. Don’t worry about it. Look in your notes, sermon notes. It’s the idea that Jesus only seemed to be human. We may not use that word today, but we often live like it’s true. But Hebrews, it won’t let us do that. He shared in flesh and blood. He suffered. He died. Because only a real man can represent real people before a holy God.

Notice what the text says. It doesn’t say he was tempted. It says he suffered when he was tempted. And that means several things. He felt the pressure of temptation. But there’s a difference between Jesus and us. Because when we’re tempted, we just give in a lot of times. But Jesus never did. It means that he felt that temptation to its fullest intensity all the way to the end. What do we do? We just tap out. We tap out early. He endured the full weight of it. Here’s another one. He experienced the real internal struggle all the while without sin. He wasn’t pretending. He hungered in the wilderness. He felt the weariness in his body and the sorrow in his soul. The agony of Gethsemane was a severe suffering. Temptation pressed on Him on every side, but He never, ever once gave in.

For Jesus, every act of obedience meant something. Choosing the Father’s will at a real cost. That’s suffering. Obedience wasn’t easy for Him. It was costly. Now remember, the ultimate temptation of suffering. Think of the cross. He was told several things. Save yourself if you’re the Son of Man. If you are who you say you are, come down from that cross. Oh, foolish man that you are. Come on down. Avoid all the suffering. It’s a lot easier. Every moment was a temptation for Him to step away. But He stayed. He stayed. It’s like two people holding a heavy weight. The one who holds the weightest longest knows it the best. He knows temptation better than you do. Because he never escaped it by sinning.

He who knew no sin became sin for us. That we might become the righteousness of God. That’s what the Bible teaches. It’s the great exchange. How could the sinless Savior, why would He do that? Take on my sin. All of my wickedness and corruption. And put it on Himself. And bear the wrath. Forsaken. So that He could give us His righteousness. So He could take it off of them. I took your sin. Now, here, take my righteousness. Righteousness. Just wear it. Receive it. Isn’t that awesome? That our sin will be placed on his account and his righteousness on our account.

Notice what the author says next. He’s able to help those who are being tempted. Because he understands that. But more practically, how does Jesus help us when we are tempted? Notice he doesn’t say, man, I might help you. Depends on your behavior. How you doing this week? Maybe I’ll do it. He says he is able. He will help. What does that look like?

He helps you by being with you. You feel alone. You feel lonely sometimes. You feel alone in your struggle. Jesus is there with you. When you’re tempted, when you’re overwhelmed, when you feel weak, Christ is not distant or removed. You don’t fight your sin alone. You don’t pretend that He’s not there. You say, Lord, come on. I need you right now. I’m hurting. I’m struggling. I’m struggling. He’s with you right there. That’s what He’s saying. Now you might be asking yourself, I don’t see Him. I don’t even feel Him. It doesn’t matter. He’s there. In His divine nature. He is with us always, even until the end of the age. His Spirit. The Spirit of Christ. The Spirit He sent to us. The Spirit who dwells in us.

He also helps you by strengthening you to endure. That’s a big one. Temptations are going to come in various forms and various ways. Some of you think, man, someday I’m going to graduate. I’m going to get it. The sins will just be easier to deal with. No, no. There will be sin. Ask any dear old saint. Ask any lived out theologian. Pastor. What are they going to tell you, man? It’s still hard. It’s still tough. And we’ll cry out. What are we doing? Who will deliver me? Who will deliver me from this body of death? Thanks be to God through Jesus Christ our Lord. When you feel like giving in, that’s when you need the grace the most. And He’s going to give you that grace. Just cry. Say, Lord, grace! Not asking for long, protracted, extended prayers. Lord, grace!

I know this in my own life. When these moments of ministry, things get heavy, it’s easier to pull back or to check out. You feel pressure, the weight of struggles with people, discouragement, temptation. And it’s in those moments that I don’t go, man, I need to be more disciplined. I need to do more. I need help. Anybody feel that way sometimes? I just need help. I need Christ. I need Him to strengthen me. I need Him to steady me. I need Him to keep me moving forward. That’s not just true for me. That’s true for all of us. Your struggle may look different, but the temptation is the same. You don’t need willpower anymore. Self-determination. No, you need a Savior who helps you.

Here’s another way that Christ helps us. Don’t miss this. Jesus is interceding for you. If Jesus Christ is God, why does He need to intercede? Listen, Jesus is not interceding as someone weaker than the Father. He’s interceding as the one who has taken on your humanity and now stands before the Father for you. He’s not pleading with a reluctant father. He’s not trying to convince God the Father to be merciful. No, He’s presenting His finished work on your behalf. He doesn’t argue your case. He presents His cross. This means that your standing with God does not rise and fall with you. It’s anchored in Christ who is always interceding for you. The same Jesus who died for you is speaking for you right now.

Think about a time when you fall into sin. Not a big public moment. Just something quiet. A thought, a word, a choice that you know, man, that was not good. And immediately, what happens right after that? The accusations start their rolling. You’ve done it again. You haven’t changed. Oh, how could God accept you? Notice they all say you. I usually don’t speak… myself using the word you. Someone else uses that word. The accuser. The deceiver. And in that very moment, right in that moment, listen, Jesus is not turning away from you. He’s not displeased. I can’t believe it. Once again, don’t you know that I died for you? I can’t believe you have the same struggle. Now he’s standing before the Father and saying, I’ve already paid for that one. That’s done. My righteousness covers him. He belongs to me. Right now as you sit here, Jesus is standing before the Father for you. It’s not because you earned it. It’s because He has already finished the work for you.

Closing

So as we close, I want to think about what this means for you. The same Jesus who stepped into your humanity… who faced temptation, who went to the cross and satisfied the wrath of God for your sin, is the same Jesus who now stands before the Father for you. He’s not distant. He’s not waiting for you to get it together. No, He’s helping you. He’s helping His church, His children, His brothers, His bride. In your weakness, in your struggle, even in your failure. He is for you. Do you get tired of hearing that? I hope not. He is for you, which means your hope is not in how consistent you’ve been. Man, I hate that question. How’s your relationship with Jesus? What are you talking about? Like, oh, you know, he’s mad with me now. I’m doing better. That’s not how it works. When someone asks you, how’s your relationship with Christ? Here’s what you tell them. I’m in Christ. Okay? I got, he put me in him. It’s not some emotional roller coaster. I’m sealed. He is mine. I am his. Done. Savior’s finished the work. And he’s going to hold you fast.

So when you feel the weight of sin, when you feel the temptation, that pull, that drag, And then you’re going to feel, man, I don’t think I’m going to make it. I feel that a lot. I’m like, how am I going to make it to ministry all the way through? I’m not going to do it. I got the same struggles as you. Don’t run from him. Don’t run from Christ. Run to him. Because he’s able to help you. He will not fail you. Let’s be confident in Christ. He’s dealt with our sin. He’s dealt with our death. He’s dealt with our weakness. And He’s going to carry us all the way until the end. That’s what He promised. And so as we respond to God’s Word, let’s take a moment now to come before Him honestly. Not pretending, not hiding, but let’s just acknowledge together, man, I need your help, Lord. Just take a moment now. Bring your own confession before the Lord.

Prayer

Our great high priest, you’ve heard our confession. You’ve heard us share our burdens and our cares. And you know us. You know every one of us better than we know ourselves. And Lord, we are so grateful that we’ve been found in you, that you placed us into your family. that it was nothing to do with our good works, what we merited, what we earned. No, you did it all. And so now as we walk with you, as we walk in the light and have fellowship with one another, the blood of Jesus continually washes over us. Oh Lord, by your spirit, would you remind us of your mercy? Would you remind us of your faithfulness? Because I will confess that I feel weak. I feel like I can’t do it. How am I going to endure all the way to the end? How long? This is not easy. Lord, you’re reminding us that we need to come to you in our weakness and confess our need for your grace. And so we come now as your dear children that you love. We come boldly. We come with thankful hearts that you are faithful to finish the work that you started in us all the way until that great day. We thank you for it. We pray in the name of Jesus. Amen.

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